Tuesday, June 27, 2023

Lessons from Black-Eyed Susans

Apologies for the 18 day gap between my last post and this one. Life events happen. 

Happy for my personal interlude. Happy to be back. 

This morning I carefully snipped the curled-up flower heads from my cheery black-eyed Susans. Amazing to me is the difference it makes when surgically removing dead flowers, leaving only vivacious blooms. My eyes are instantly drawn to the beauty, symmetry, colors, and shapes instead of to the brown, crispy dead flowers crowding the fresh ones. Is it because I am the gardener that I after that first glance I quickly focus on the deadheads rather than the flourishing flowers? I don't know. But I do.

As usual, a life lesson presented itself.

And Bible verses as well.

"Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me Heavenward in Christ Jesus." ~~ Philippians 3:14

"Let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith." ~~ Hebrews 12:1b

Thanks to a steady hand and orange sheers this morning the sunny flowers bob and soak up the sun free from encumbrances. Clipping the finished blossoms allows room and energy for baby buds to reach toward the sun themselves. The entire group of flowers works together, under the care of me, the gardener, offering their proudest presentation. 

Refreshing the black-eyed Susans reminds me to do some personal gardening, to cast off unnecessary mental, emotional, or spiritual burdens, unceremoniously tossed within by others or my own self, or, to be honest, by current events. (But let's not go there right now.) 

Under the care of my Gardener, and by my choice to clear away the slog and bog, I become brightly available to offer my very best to those around me. Renewing my inner environment by taking stock of the inventory in there - including the rubbish that needs removal - creates the freedom to thrive, to continue. Better still it entices the desire to bloom, to let my beauty shine, my inner light. It is the same for you.

"...let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven." ~~ Matthew 5: 16

In addition to helping others, peace and contentment are ours when we move through life lighter and cared for.

If we do the work, the benefits will come. 

The benefits of caring for my flowers are a jolly yellow color spot and the bees and butterflies that visit. 

In the case of my heart, mind, and soul, the benefits of discarding untruths and old hurts are relief, peace, renewed energy, and hope.

Which reminds me of another verse: 

"But those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint." ~~ Isaiah 40:31

Happy Gardening! 


Friday, June 09, 2023

Debussy and Me

When an unsettledness presses on me, Debussy's music calms me down, restores my balance.

Claude Debussy (1862-1918, French), considered by some to be the first Impressionist Composer, though he himself rejected this term, was the youngest of five children in a musical family, his father a sales representative, his mother a seamstress. He was close to his siblings and had an especially strong relationship with his parents throughout his life. 

When invited into the background of my day - while I write or pay the bills, or clean, or prepare a meal - Claude's soulful pieces create tranquility. 

My face relaxes.

My mind focuses.

My breathing becomes deep and restful.

And whatever I am working on becomes pleasant.

Such a simple fix to banish broody moods.

This is the power of art, more precisely the language of art, which has a passport to regions of my being words cannot navigate. Put another way, the language of art is the key to the lock on emotion's door. Gently and quietly this language enters. It simply nods its head to my mood, understanding even when I don't. This artfulness speaks to my heart which responds to both humanness and divinity. Soon my own head nods in return.

A powerful language it is.

The power of art. Any masterful art.

God is an artist. I am made in His image.

It is not surprising that the lovely language of beautiful art turns my heart to the Creator, no words necessary.

"Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weaknesses. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words."          Romans 8:26  

Here is a link to one of the greatest pianists of all time, Lang Lang, the young musician from China. This is a video of him on a boat, on the Seine in Paris, at night, lights all around, lovely cinematography, playing Debussy's Clair de Lune. Such a soulful young man. He is transported by the music and thus I am, too. Enjoy!

Friday, June 02, 2023

Joie de Vivre Moment #5 - Venice Water Taxi

As Indiana Jones sighed, "I love Venice."

Founded in 697, Venice has a unique history, a watery setting, and a romantic atmosphere with its canals, arched bridges, colorful buildings, and smells of the pleasant and not so pleasant varieties. I'll leave it to you to research her further.

Narrow walkways, hard cobblestones underfoot, GPS unreliable, like a puzzle to navigate but what fun! An absolute blast!

How tired my feet and knees became after working that puzzle for hours, finding the unique treasures which belong to Venice alone. 

But I digress.

One day, while vacationing for a week nearby, my husband, daughter, son-in-law, and I and drove into Venice, as far as we could, walking the rest of the way toward the liquid maze to explore. With gasps erupting from our lungs, cameras pulled from pockets and purses - pointing and clicking while in rhapsodic dazes - we crossed a Venetian bridge for the first time, water below, overcast sky above, history exploding all around.

"Where shall we go?"

"I'm getting hungry."

"I'd like to stand on the Rialto Bridge."

"Sounds like marching orders to me. Let's go!"

Our bed and breakfast host told us to be sure to take a map because GPS is unreliable in the city. Because the maps had tiny print - all those streets and businesses! - my son-in-law tried using his phone's GPS anyway. It seemed to work. But it led us on wild goose chases. We ended up in little stub-ends of narrow walkways, or tiny squares of residential areas. 

However, we did fortuitously happen upon public restrooms, clean and well-attended by friendly women who take your euros with a grazie (thank you) while pointing left or right for men or women. We learned early on that the word toilette uttered in an interrogatory tone would yield locations and directions. A good thing to know in Italy.

Yelp guided us to a little restaurant with good reviews where we had a delicious authentic meal at a table in the center of several other tables, Italian enthusiastically spoken all around. That took care of the hungries in fine fashion. 

Coffee and Cocoa Photo Credit: Caroline Foulard

Now, to find the bridge.

The famous stone arch bridge, Ponte di Rialto (Rialto Bridge) crosses the Grand Canal at the narrowest point in the heart of Venice. Built in the late 16th century and renowned as an architectural and engineering achievement of the Renaissance, the bridge is the result of a design competition won by Antonio da Ponte and his nephew Antonio Contino. 

GPS was taking us in circles, the map was confusing. I had a bright idea.

"Let's follow the crowds. We know we are getting close. The bridge has to be a big draw for tourists. The crowds will direct us there."

And they did!

We exited a narrow dark walkway into a tourist hubbub of photo posing, boats, and the magnificent bridge spanning the waters of the Grand Canal. Thrilling! Like the victors we were, we four stood shoulder to shoulder on the banks of the waterway, the sun had burned off the clouds a bit revealing the autumn Italian sky. A gondola floated noiselessly right in front of us. Ah, Venice! 

And then. . . 

. . . four noses wrinkled, four sets of eyes looked at one another.

"What is that smell?"

Travel informs deeper and truer than movies, pictures, or even Rick Steves. Oh, they show you carefully filmed scenes bathed in beautiful weather, smiling faces of attractive people - or at least friendly-looking ones - music in the background. Sure. But when you actually stand there in the comfortable weather, street musicians playing live music at your elbow, an eclectic array of ancient buildings splashed with the lapping waters of the canal, the iconic Ponte di Rialto dominating the scene, yes, your senses fill with sights, and sounds, the taste of the watery air, the touch of the sunshine and breeze, the sound of folk music, and  . . . the smell of sewage. Rick Steves didn't tell us about that.

But we, being us, found it hilarious. Onto the bridge we traversed swept up in the merriment of tourists, including us, posing for pictures, taking it all in, joy abounding. A dream come true.

More walking. More pictures. More amazement.

Until the moment came when it was time to head home. 

By the time that moment hit we were far from our parked car. Far, far far. We still had cobblestone walkways to tread plus arched bridges aplenty - you have to find just the right bridge to get you where you need to go - and curving passageways yet to conquer before we met the comfortable seats of our rental car for the drive back to our even more comfortable country estate in a nearby village.

My body went on strike. Right then and there. I gave my options some serious thought, then made my proclamation.

"I'm not walking all that way back. My feet and knees are killing me from these cobblestones. I'm taking one of those classic wooden boats, a water taxi. You guys can walk. I'm taking a boat." 

Protests of how expensive that would be met me, but I said I didn't care how much it cost. I've always wanted to ride in one. Now is the time.

Son-in-law gazelled from the bridge we were standing on to a landing where water taxis were parked, waiting for clients. He made a deal for all four of us to ride to our exit. Fifty dollars. If I agreed.

"Done." I said. I gave him the money. 

You should have seen the smiles on the faces of my family! They were so excited and tickled and eager and loving it! I was thankful for the inappropriate shoes I wore which led us to this decision.

In a matter of minutes an Italian man was holding one of my hands and my French son-in-law holding the other as they helped me aboard the rocking boat. My mind was blown. How did I get here? Who cares! It's glorious good fun.

My husband and son-in-law were grinning from ear to ear. My daughter and I were giggling and grasping each other's hands in glee. Look where we are! Look what we are about to do! 

Immediately passing through the cabin to the back of the boat, I stood there looking all around me, my arms resting on the smooth shiny wood of the top of the cabin, face to the breeze. My family followed. Once again, we four victors faced the world and the wind, only our driver and us aboard. We faced the canal, took a couple of excellent selfies - excellent because the joie de vivre shines from our faces - and we settled in for a dream come true. 

Drinking in the moment, studying and enjoying everything around me, feeling it, smelling the air which just smelled good like Venice should, of water and boat fumes and coffee and oldness, absolute contentment alighted on my entire being. 

Our ride took several minutes, for which we were thankful. Bursting with happiness, it took great self-regulation for me to not grin and wave at the tourists in the heavy water busses or the gliding gondolas, or even at the people with cameras pointing at us from the bridges. It's just not done. Understated elegance, you see.

After disembarking we marveled at our newfound energy. My rejuvenated body didn't ache anymore after its rest. I bought some lovely prints of Venice which hang in my bedroom, reminding me everyday of that euphoric moment. My daughter bought some clothing and trinkets. 

And we drove home, wrapped in our joie de vivre, happy chatter all the way.

That Venice water taxi ride is a highlight of my life. A dream come true, grander than imagined, enriched by the fact that, rather than a touristy check-it-off-your-list attraction, I needed help, I was in pain, and there was this sun-reflecting glossy boat which just happened to contain a wish for me, a desire to be whisked away through the watery streets of Venice, under its various-sized bridges, next to venerable structures, and with some of my beloved family along for the ride, overflowing with contented vitality.  

Oftentimes difficulties give way to the most beautiful - and memorable - joie de vivre experiences.

Che bello! (How beautiful!)

(Photos all mine except where marked. All rights reserved. Thank you!)